new year, new ideas


Hi Reader,

I’ll keep this short. Early January always feels quieter than I expect with less fireworks and more clarity. So I wanted to reach out to you before life gets busy again.

First, thank you for being on this list. If you’re here, it means you’re at least a little curious about what freedom could look like in your own life, and I don’t take that lightly.

Second, I’ve been sitting with a few ideas as Freedom Looks Like This continues to take shape this year.

Some things I’m leaning into:

  • sharing more real, in-the-moment reflections
  • talking more openly about choosing how we can live full lifes now, not “someday”
  • creating support for women who aren’t ready for big moves but are ready to stop waiting

Nothing is locked in. I’m still listening. Including to myself. Which is where you come in.

  • Do you have any thoughts on this?
  • Anything you wish was talked about more honestly?
  • Something you’re quietly navigating right now?

I like all your responses. You can even just reply with one sentence. No explanation or long story needed, although you can feel free to add that too. Just hit reply and tell me. I really do read every response.

Joyfully,
Damianne

P.S. If you’re in listening mode right now, the latest episode of the podcast is out. It’s about Tracee Ellis Ross and why solo travel is trending for women 40+. You can listen here:
https://freedomlookslikethis.com/the-tracee-ellis-ross-effect-and-why-solo-travel-is-resonating-right-now/

Damianne President

https://linktr.ee/coachdamianne

Podcaster & Coach

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