pick one question


Hi Reader,

I keep thinking about how many trips stay in the almost stage. Almost looking at flights, almost asking for the time off, almost telling someone, “I think I want to go.”

Sometimes the trip isn’t the hard part. It’s saying the real question out loud. Can I do this by myself? Will I feel lonely? Is this too much money? What if I get there and wish I hadn’t gone?

So here's a small thing I want you to do this week. Pick the trip you keep thinking about and write down the one question that keeps coming up. Not every question. Just the one that is loudest right now.

Then bring it to the Skool community if you're a woman over 40. (If you're not, reply directly to this email.)

That’s what the Freedom Looks Like This Skool community is for: the middle part where you could go either way with the trip because it's not real enough yet. If you're curious and unsure and want to talk to some women who get it, come join us

Join the Skool community here.

Post your question when you get there. Or if that feels like too much, reply and send it to me first.

Joyfully,
Damianne

PS: Here's my podcast episode on choosing a destination by following the feeling first, before you get lost in everyone else’s lists and recommendations. Listen here: https://freedomlookslikethis.com/follow-the-feeling-not-the-feed/

Freedom Looks Like This

A newsletter for women over 40 who are tired of making "good" decisions instead of their own. From the host of Freedom Looks Like This. Solo travel as a way back to yourself.

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